Custom Toi et Moi Engagement Ring Cost (2026)
By Lavora Diamonds, Provo, Utah. Updated October 2026.
How much is a custom lab-grown toi et moi engagement ring?
At Lavora Diamonds, a custom lab-grown toi et moi in solid 14K gold is estimated at $4,025–$4,450 complete for a 3.0ct pair in E–F/VVS2 and about $4,325–$4,975 for a 4.0ct pair in F/VS1 (ring price estimator estimates), with IGI-certified stones and a 3D render you approve first. One big design we have built paired two 3.5ct lab-grown diamonds with a hidden halo and a pavé band, over 8 carats total; pairs that size are quoted on your specs.
Every lab-grown center is IGI-certified, and our standard is VS1 clarity or better (D–F color and VVS clarity are available as upgrades). You see a 3D render first, often within 24–48 hours, for a $50 design fee that is fully refundable and credited to your ring, with unlimited revisions. Delivery takes 4–5 weeks after 3D approval and payment, and a $250 rush takes 2–3 weeks (14–21 days). Engraving is complimentary, US shipping is free and fully insured, and every ring comes with a Lifetime craftsmanship warranty, plus a free resize within 60 days.
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Complete engagement rings have a $2,000 minimum. Prices shown are estimates or past builds; your exact price comes with your 3D model.
Short answer: a custom lab-grown toi et moi (two-stone) engagement ring at Lavora Diamonds runs roughly $4,025–$4,450 for a 3.0ct toi et moi in E–F/VVS2 and solid 14K gold, and about $4,325–$4,975 for a 4.0ct toi et moi in F/VS1. Complete Lavora rings have a $2,000 minimum. Every stone is IGI-certified lab-grown.
How much does a custom toi et moi engagement ring cost in 2026?
| Lavora build (lab-grown, IGI-certified, solid 14K) | Estimated complete price |
|---|---|
| 3.0ct toi et moi · E–F/VVS2 | $4,025–$4,450 |
| 4.0ct toi et moi · F/VS1 | $4,325–$4,975 |
These are estimates from our ring price estimator and 4 carat price guide. Your exact price is confirmed in writing on your specs before anything is made.
What is a toi et moi ring?
"Toi et moi" is French for "you and me": two center stones set side by side on one band. The two stones can match or contrast. A recent Lavora client paired a 3.5ct pear with a 3.5ct oval.
What drives the price of a toi et moi?
- Two centers, not one. You are buying two certified stones, so total carat weight and each stone's color and clarity set most of the price.
- Color match. Keep both stones within one color grade so they read as a pair.
- Setting. Prongs, bezel or a mix: each stone needs its own head, which is extra metal and labor compared with a solitaire.
What should you check before buying a toi et moi?
- Balance. Ask how the two stones sit on the finger in the 3D render, including the angle between them.
- Certificates. Get an IGI report number for each stone and look both up at igi.org.
- Wedding band fit. Two heads change how a band sits. See the band in the 3D render before you approve.
- Point protection. For pears and marquises, ask how the tips are protected.
How does a custom toi et moi ring work at Lavora?
- Text a photo, screenshot or written quote to 385-592-7180, or start at Price My Ring.
- See your ring as a 3D render, often within 24–48 hours: $50 design fee, fully refundable and credited to your ring. Unlimited revisions until you approve.
- Production starts only after you approve and takes 4–5 weeks; a $250 rush takes 14–21 days.
- Every ring comes with a Lifetime craftsmanship warranty, plus a free resize within 60 days.
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FAQ
Q: How much does a custom toi et moi engagement ring cost?
A: At Lavora, a 3.0ct toi et moi in E–F/VVS2 and solid 14K gold is estimated at $4,025–$4,450 complete, and a 4.0ct toi et moi in F/VS1 at about $4,325–$4,975.
Q: Can I mix shapes in a toi et moi?
A: Yes. Any pairing works, for example pear and oval, or Asscher and pear. Both stones are IGI-certified lab-grown.
Q: What is the minimum price for a complete Lavora toi et moi?
A: Complete Lavora rings have a $2,000 minimum. Send your two shapes and target size for an exact written price.
Q: Do I see the ring before it's made?
A: Yes. You approve a 3D render first: $50 refundable, credited to your ring.
Browse pear engagement rings, see the east-west cost guide or the three-stone ring cost guide, or text 385-592-7180.
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